I’ve been asked quite a few times if women, more specifically, vagina is all the same. Married men have asked because they haven’t been with enough partners to know and women have asked because they want to know how they can be different. Here’s the way I see it.
The short answer is yes, it’s basically all the same. In general, women are women. Sex is sex. Blah blah blah. So, men, if you’ve been married and faithful for 50 years and you’re wondering what your missing out on, nothing (wink, wink). Stop reading now and go clean out the garage.
Now that it’s only us deviants left, lets cut the shit. Of course it’s all different! Women aren’t the same. Bodies aren’t the same. Personalities, chemistry, and circumstances all make every partner different. It’s hard to describe what the difference between a good partner and a bad partner. There are so many variables that are probably different for every man.
For me, a huge aspect to good sex is personality. I’d fuck a good personality. A cool girl makes sex relaxing, fun, and interesting. She makes it okay to try crazy positions. Doesn’t freak out about strange noises or fluids that sometimes happen. Is comfortable with her body, and mine. Enthusiastic about sex and doesn’t make me feel like she’s doing it as a favor or because she’s obligated to. I know this contradicts our macho, fuck anything with a heartbeat, reputations. Sorry!
Physical qualities of a woman definitely play a huge roll as well. As much as I might want to fuck a personality, I can’t. I have to be physically attracted. Everyone has different likes/dislikes. At this in point in my life, I like a mature woman with some life scars. Someone with experience and confidence. I’m more attracted to super moms than super models.
Vaginas. Yup, there’s a difference. There’s not much you can do to control the defining qualities of your vagina. You can do Kegel exercises, but you’re basically stuck with what you have.
Some vaginas are inherently tight, and some are loose. Some get super wet, and other’s require lube. Some are anatomically built to take deep penetration, and some just can’t do it. Some girls work their pussies like a stripper on a pole during sex, some just lay there. Shaved and hairy. No smell and aromatic. Fat lips and thin lips. The point is, NO. It’s not all the same! Accept what you have and be proud of it. Fuck him like you’re never going to see him again. Utilize you’re strong qualities and don’t sweat the small stuff.
I kind of feel sorry for people that have only been with one or two people in their life. They can’t possibly know what they really like. I do!